Help me plz

Kai Beginner Joined: 14 Jul 2006 Posts: 2

(I do not have any firewall software and I disabled my windows firewall)
Ok im using xbmc the latest version. I have a netgear wgr614 wireless router. The router is hooked up to the dsl modem and the computer is wired to the router and my xbox is wired to the router also.
This is my port forwarding on my router-
Service Name=Xlinkkai1
Start Port=30000
End Port=30000
Server Ip Address=192.168.10.4 (This is my engine address)
And On xkai-
I have engine only profile.
Already chose my network adapter
Kai Port=30000
Kai Deep Port=0
I only have launch engine checked.
Close Engine After= Never
Accept Connection from= Any IP Address

And my problem is that it shows that I am connected to xkai on xbmc but when I go to play on someones server it loads the game and I go to system link there is no system link game showing!?!?!?
Ive read so many guides detail to detail. And nothing works so this is my last resort... (Xkai doesnt work when I try to play from my pc...)