More Relationship Help ( Yes again )

Nintendo Specialist Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 1889

So to update on me and this girl i spoke about in an earlier thread, we both want to be with each other except she is being influenced by her logic and not following her feelings.

She says she knows we wont work because im 23, i havent had as many life experiences as she does, shes ready to settle down, we still work together, i am not right for her, shes worried about what our families would think....

She told me to accept this "fact", and that she is right. I told her that she doesnt know that we wouldnt work only God knows.

I really want to be with her, and i understand her logic but relationships arent completely based on logic. There based on feelings and emotions. but in certain situations, like a 15 year old and a 22 year old is illegal and logic is dominant here.

Im really frustrated. I love hanging out with her and being with her and i especially love being close to her and intimate with her. She feels the same but her logic keeps holding her back.

Idk if im in love, but it might be naive of me to say that i might love her and that id love to settle down with her cuz shes awesome and i love everything about her. I know for a fact she cares ALOT for me.

I dont want to tell her how i feel because that will push her away.

Team XLink Developer Joined: 28 Nov 2007 Posts: 2338

I don't see a problem with it at all. One of my friend's parents ages differ by 11 years.

Nintendo Specialist Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 1889

i saw this and it made me smile:

David Borenstein wrote:

Feelings are not supposed to be logical. Dangerous is the man who has rationalized his emotions.

What sucks the most is i feel powerless to do anything.

Team XLink Administrator Joined: 11 Nov 2004 Posts: 5024

Maybe I'm just a cynical bastard, but....read between the lines. If she's giving you lame excuses then she's probably just not looking for a relationship. Go with it and enjoy the ride.

Nintendo Specialist Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 1889

she wants to date but we cant for the reasons she explained. Heart says yes but brain says no.

Kai Regular Joined: 17 Jun 2007 Posts: 194

cannon just go with what feels right.

Team XLink Administrator Joined: 11 Nov 2004 Posts: 5024

Lowbrassman04 wrote:

she wants to date but we cant for the reasons she explained. Heart says yes but brain says no.

If she really wanted to date, she would... Confused

Nintendo Specialist Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 1889

fixer48202 wrote:

cannon just go with what feels right.

I am. She isnt going with what feels right to her.

MeanMF wrote:

Lowbrassman04 wrote:

she wants to date but we cant for the reasons she explained. Heart says yes but brain says no.

If she really wanted to date, she would... Confused

That makes sense i guess.

Team XLink Administrator Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 1697

MeanMF wrote:

Lowbrassman04 wrote:

she wants to date but we cant for the reasons she explained. Heart says yes but brain says no.

If she really wanted to date, she would... Confused

Women are mind fuckers. If she is dancing around the situation and leading you on, i would say move on and find someone else. The time you are wasting on this girl you could be spent finding the girl of your dreams.

Kai Lover Joined: 23 Dec 2007 Posts: 911

r

llnk wrote:

lmao

Video Master Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 1815

nothing wrong with this IMO, i mean youre both adults and there's nothing wrong with a MILF.

Team XLink Administrator Joined: 03 May 2004 Posts: 2075

You're wasting your time, bro. Stop trying to convince Juliet that her Romeo has arrived, you're not going to tame that shrew.

Truth is, you only have three or four years to find the love of your life then the pickings get pretty slim. Don't squander this time on someone who is clearly not that in to you.

-p

PSP Guru Joined: 07 Apr 2007 Posts: 2405

prestige wrote:

You're wasting your time, bro. Stop trying to convince Juliet that her Romeo has arrived, you're not going to tame that shrew.

Truth is, you only have three or four years to find the love of your life then the pickings get pretty slim. Don't squander this time on someone who is clearly not that in to you.

-p

Clearly the words from the wiseman himself needed to be spoken; and its the best advice i read so far.

Team XLink Administrator Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 4061

Plenty more fish in the sea. Just get better bait!

Team XLink Administrator Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 1697

dukeuk76 wrote:

Plenty more fish in the sea. Just get better bait!

www.plentyoffish.com Smile

Team XLink Administrator Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 3354

Stay single.

Nintendo Specialist Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 1889

[FUNK] wrote:

Stay single.

but i need some female lovins lol

PSP Guru Joined: 07 Apr 2007 Posts: 2405

Lowbrassman04 wrote:

[FUNK] wrote:

Stay single.

but i need some female lovins lol

Play The Field, you can get females lovins without being committed

Kai Spammer Joined: 11 Dec 2006 Posts: 1221

Lowbrassman04 wrote:

[FUNK] wrote:

Stay single.

but i need some female lovins lol

Go to a strip club or a college campus, basically the same thing. Wink

Video Master Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 1815

Lowbrassman04 wrote:

[FUNK] wrote:

Stay single.

but i need some female lovins lol

http://www.fleshlight.com/