More Relationship Help ( Yes again )

Nintendo Specialist Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 1889

Ive decided to give up on her. its causing too much heart ache. I was just being stubborn thinking things would work out for the best, but technically they did cuz were still friends.

Stressing over her has caused me to get sick. Ive had a stomach ache for over 2 weeks. With her telling me to accept the fact that we wont work, im not feeling like i dont want it to work. I need someone my own age who is problem and phobia free.

I just need to stop feeling sorry for my self and get out and meet new people. Being out of college its harder to meet ladies. it was hard enough meeting them in college (i never hooked up with anyone in college. one was a friend from high school and this girl is from work) so yeah.

Thanks for the help guys. i love you all. no homo. Very Happy

Team XLink Baker Joined: 18 Jun 2004 Posts: 676

ok I know I don't usually have the time to say much but I thought I would offer some advise seeing as I am a 34 year old Mother and happily married woman.

Wink

I am going to try and put myself in her shoes for a second.

If it were me I would say that there is too much of a gap and it would be hard to relate to one another.

You see you grew up in very different times so I could see how that would be an issue.

I know this may be hard to hear but I think that she thinks of you as kind of a boy toy instead of a serious consideration for a long lasting relationship.

This so called "logic" is just another name for what I like to call "the big blow off".

I am glad to hear you have given up on this one. She is not worth your time if she is just playing with you.

Take it from me, the best thing you could do with this is just walk away and never see her again.

Gunny

Team XLink Administrator Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 3354

The older I get and the harder I tried the more I realized it was me I was searching for the whole time. If you can find a way to be happy alone then you will surely be able to be happy with someone else also. Relax and have fun because in the grand scheme of things this really doesn't mean shit when your on your death bed.

Nintendo Specialist Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 1889

I think Gunny is on to something. maybe these 30 somthings want a boy toy...i ended up talking to one of this girls friends who is around 30 with a kid on chat and somehow im cooking Chicken Alfredo for me and this new chick soon.

....Am I cougar bait?

Team XLink Administrator Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 4061

Lowbrassman04 wrote:

I think Gunny is on to something. maybe these 30 somthings want a boy toy...i ended up talking to one of this girls friends who is around 30 with a kid on chat and somehow im cooking Chicken Alfredo for me and this new chick soon.

....Am I cougar bait?

Get stuck in! Razz

Team XLink Administrator Joined: 03 May 2004 Posts: 2075

[FUNK] wrote:

The older I get and the harder I tried the more I realized it was me I was searching for the whole time. If you can find a way to be happy alone then you will surely be able to be happy with someone else also. Relax and have fun because in the grand scheme of things this really doesn't mean shit when your on your death bed.

You self-loving sage, you.

-p

Kai Enthusiast Joined: 15 Jan 2008 Posts: 285

Rule to date is half your age plus 7. 30 seems ok.

Nintendo Specialist Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 1889

well i ended up cutting this girl out of my life. The stress was making me physically sick. I also quit my job at save a lot and now i work part time at Best Buy. And u are right tycoon, i feel more comfortable at Best buy and i feel that im taken care of Smile

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I feel freaking awesome now that i quit save a lot and stopped talking or seeing that girl. plus im taking 5htp for my mood. But i havent felt this good in a LONG time.

but NOW im talking to another 30 year old (who is friends with the other one, whom got jealous of cuz i didnt tell her i was hanging out with one of her friends. she thought i liked her and got jealous, which she has NO reason to get jealous, we werent dating.) lol freakin women i swear. there gonna be the death of me.

this one has a 10 yr old kid. shes more laid back than the other one and alot more happy. the other one was depressed all the time. but id still like to 'hook up' with the other 30 yr old. i never had a skinny girl before lol i usually go for the think kind. not jumbos, just the ones that have meat on them :p shes a lot hotter than the other.

the new chick is coming over tonight. were having pizza and having a marathon of the office. Wish me luck guys Smile

age doesnt make a difference to me. but obviously im not gonna date a granny. Like said, im cougar bait.

Thanks for the help guys Very Happy

u all are awesome. when i get enough money im taking a road trip and were gonna have a kai kegger Smile

everyones invited except for TT, jk lol ur invited :p

Kai Enthusiast Joined: 15 Jan 2008 Posts: 285

Lowbrassman04 wrote:

well i ended up cutting this girl out of my life. The stress was making me physically sick. I also quit my job at save a lot and now i work part time at Best Buy. And u are right tycoon, i feel more comfortable at Best buy and i feel that im taken care of Smile

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I feel freaking awesome now that i quit save a lot and stopped talking or seeing that girl. plus im taking 5htp for my mood. But i havent felt this good in a LONG time.

but NOW im talking to another 30 year old (who is friends with the other one, whom got jealous of cuz i didnt tell her i was hanging out with one of her friends. she thought i liked her and got jealous, which she has NO reason to get jealous, we werent dating.) lol freakin women i swear. there gonna be the death of me.

Dude glad you ended up taking some of our advice and I'm glad you are enjoying life that much more.

And yes women will be the death of us all. Me too dude. I know exactly how you feel.

Good luck with the new woman.

Team XLink Administrator Joined: 11 Nov 2004 Posts: 5024

Lowbrassman04 wrote:

and now i work part time at Best Buy.

http://gizmodo.com/5311140/the-seven-types-of-employees-you-meet-at-best-buy

Which one are you??

Nintendo Specialist Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 1889

i dont fit any of them lol

Im the wet behind the ears new guy who does what hes told lol.

Kai Spammer Joined: 11 Dec 2006 Posts: 1221

MeanMF wrote:

Lowbrassman04 wrote:

and now i work part time at Best Buy.

http://gizmodo.com/5311140/the-seven-types-of-employees-you-meet-at-best-buy

Which one are you??

anything for Radioshack? lol Laughing

Kai Enthusiast Joined: 15 Jan 2008 Posts: 285

Quote:

Terrifying Loss-Prevention Guy
This guy is either an ex-con, an ex-cop or a vet. He is jacked yet forced to wear a yellow polo shirt, which creates a false sense of levity when dealing with him. He may seem friendly on the outside, but if you cross him he will snap your neck. He legitimately thinks that it's unfair that Best Buy security guys aren't allowed to carry sidearms. He has so much rage bottled up inside him that you know to just say hello and smile and otherwise steer clear.

This is true.

The first few days I got put up at LP and one of my friends thought I looked like I was going to kill someone. (This was before we actually met) One of our guys is going to be a cop and one was a bouncer and the other was in the military.

They don't have anything on the warehouse guys so I'm the LP guy. But every one of those stereotypes are true.

Team XLink Baker Joined: 18 Jun 2004 Posts: 676

[1up]Tycoon5000 wrote:

Lowbrassman04 wrote:

well i ended up cutting this girl out of my life. The stress was making me physically sick. I also quit my job at save a lot and now i work part time at Best Buy. And u are right tycoon, i feel more comfortable at Best buy and i feel that im taken care of Smile

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I feel freaking awesome now that i quit save a lot and stopped talking or seeing that girl. plus im taking 5htp for my mood. But i havent felt this good in a LONG time.

but NOW im talking to another 30 year old (who is friends with the other one, whom got jealous of cuz i didnt tell her i was hanging out with one of her friends. she thought i liked her and got jealous, which she has NO reason to get jealous, we werent dating.) lol freakin women i swear. there gonna be the death of me.

Dude glad you ended up taking some of our advice and I'm glad you are enjoying life that much more.

And yes women will be the death of us all. Me too dude. I know exactly how you feel.

Good luck with the new woman.

Damn you women! Wait a minute....I am a woman....Damn you men.

Yes we will be the death of you all..just ask my husband.

On the up side if you are lucky enough you will have a woman that has more of an old school mentality like myself that doesn't mind cooking and cleaning.

On the down side it will cost you $$$$$$$. Laughing

For the record Thick women are more fun Wink

Nintendo Specialist Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 1889

lol this one is STRONG lol
she says shes a old fashioned but idk her well enough to know yet.

We hung out the other night. Had mtdew sherbert floats and talked all night long then cuddled and made out. this was unexpected to both of us lol. FTR, Massages lead to cuddling and making out. lol
she jokes around and is a blast to hang out with and talk to. (the other was a little fun but i had to be real careful of what i did or said or shed get pissed adn upset :L)

Idk if were gonna date or not. I did meet this hot chick at work today, she wanted to know about film making. so i told her. i was hoping shed comment on my youtube page so i could get into contact with her but thats just my creeper in me coming out haha. (this one was younger and not a cougar. so dont label me...JUST yet haha Smile

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