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Lowbrassman04
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Wed Jun 10, 2009 8:22 pm |
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So to update on me and this girl i spoke about in an earlier thread, we both want to be with each other except she is being influenced by her logic and not following her feelings.
She says she knows we wont work because im 23, i havent had as many life experiences as she does, shes ready to settle down, we still work together, i am not right for her, shes worried about what our families would think....
She told me to accept this "fact", and that she is right. I told her that she doesnt know that we wouldnt work only God knows.
I really want to be with her, and i understand her logic but relationships arent completely based on logic. There based on feelings and emotions. but in certain situations, like a 15 year old and a 22 year old is illegal and logic is dominant here.
Im really frustrated. I love hanging out with her and being with her and i especially love being close to her and intimate with her. She feels the same but her logic keeps holding her back.
Idk if im in love, but it might be naive of me to say that i might love her and that id love to settle down with her cuz shes awesome and i love everything about her. I know for a fact she cares ALOT for me.
I dont want to tell her how i feel because that will push her away. |
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CrunchBite
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Wed Jun 10, 2009 8:27 pm |
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I don't see a problem with it at all. One of my friend's parents ages differ by 11 years. |
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Lowbrassman04
Nintendo Specialist
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Wed Jun 10, 2009 8:34 pm |
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i saw this and it made me smile:
David Borenstein wrote: |
Feelings are not supposed to be logical. Dangerous is the man who has rationalized his emotions. |
What sucks the most is i feel powerless to do anything. |
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MeanMF
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Wed Jun 10, 2009 11:05 pm |
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Maybe I'm just a cynical bastard, but....read between the lines. If she's giving you lame excuses then she's probably just not looking for a relationship. Go with it and enjoy the ride. |
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Lowbrassman04
Nintendo Specialist
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Thu Jun 11, 2009 2:25 am |
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she wants to date but we cant for the reasons she explained. Heart says yes but brain says no. |
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fixer48202
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Thu Jun 11, 2009 11:06 am |
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cannon just go with what feels right. |
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MeanMF
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Thu Jun 11, 2009 1:34 pm |
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Lowbrassman04 wrote: |
she wants to date but we cant for the reasons she explained. Heart says yes but brain says no. |
If she really wanted to date, she would... |
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Lowbrassman04
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Thu Jun 11, 2009 2:44 pm |
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fixer48202 wrote: |
cannon just go with what feels right. |
I am. She isnt going with what feels right to her.
MeanMF wrote: |
Lowbrassman04 wrote: |
she wants to date but we cant for the reasons she explained. Heart says yes but brain says no. |
If she really wanted to date, she would... |
That makes sense i guess. |
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llnk
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Thu Jun 11, 2009 3:24 pm |
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MeanMF wrote: |
Lowbrassman04 wrote: |
she wants to date but we cant for the reasons she explained. Heart says yes but brain says no. |
If she really wanted to date, she would... |
Women are mind fuckers. If she is dancing around the situation and leading you on, i would say move on and find someone else. The time you are wasting on this girl you could be spent finding the girl of your dreams.
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Fri Jun 12, 2009 9:33 am |
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lmao |
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TPP27
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Sat Jun 13, 2009 4:12 am |
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nothing wrong with this IMO, i mean youre both adults and there's nothing wrong with a MILF. |
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prestige
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Sat Jun 13, 2009 4:25 am |
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You're wasting your time, bro. Stop trying to convince Juliet that her Romeo has arrived, you're not going to tame that shrew.
Truth is, you only have three or four years to find the love of your life then the pickings get pretty slim. Don't squander this time on someone who is clearly not that in to you.
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Sat Jun 13, 2009 11:57 pm |
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prestige wrote: |
You're wasting your time, bro. Stop trying to convince Juliet that her Romeo has arrived, you're not going to tame that shrew.
Truth is, you only have three or four years to find the love of your life then the pickings get pretty slim. Don't squander this time on someone who is clearly not that in to you.
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Clearly the words from the wiseman himself needed to be spoken; and its the best advice i read so far. |
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dukeuk76
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Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:09 am |
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Plenty more fish in the sea. Just get better bait! |
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llnk
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Mon Jun 15, 2009 3:20 pm |
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dukeuk76 wrote: |
Plenty more fish in the sea. Just get better bait! |
www.plentyoffish.com |
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[FUNK]
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Tue Jun 16, 2009 12:12 pm |
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Stay single. |
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Lowbrassman04
Nintendo Specialist
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Tue Jun 16, 2009 3:15 pm |
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[FUNK] wrote: |
Stay single. |
but i need some female lovins lol |
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Tue Jun 16, 2009 5:39 pm |
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Lowbrassman04 wrote: |
[FUNK] wrote: |
Stay single. |
but i need some female lovins lol |
Play The Field, you can get females lovins without being committed |
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[DC][)ragonfire
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Joined: 11 Dec 2006
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Tue Jun 16, 2009 10:22 pm |
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Lowbrassman04 wrote: |
[FUNK] wrote: |
Stay single. |
but i need some female lovins lol |
Go to a strip club or a college campus, basically the same thing. |
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TPP27
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Tue Jun 16, 2009 11:31 pm |
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Lowbrassman04 wrote: |
[FUNK] wrote: |
Stay single. |
but i need some female lovins lol |
http://www.fleshlight.com/ |
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